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30-35,
anonymous
writes:OMG help me!!! wen I masturbate nothing happens. I'll rub on my G spot but nothing.. it doesnt appeal to me one bit not even a little!! my boyfriend will do it but nothing either.. sex feels ok but not like what its made out to be for me...i fake orgasms so my boyfriend wont feel bad. the only time something feels good is if things happen to my clit like vibrations.. whats wrong with me? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2009): Nothing is wrong with you. Honestly, most women don't start to enjoy sex until late 20's or early 30's. Your man needs to take some classes on eating you out. I enjoy sex now but can't come without oral sex or a vibrator. You're normal girl...
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (13 September 2009):
I've had more orgasms in my sleep, than when I've had sex, you need to experiment. I would invest in a vibrator, that would probably make some changes. ;)
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reader, Illithid +, writes (11 September 2009):
 Many women don't feel much or even anything from their GSpots (one GF of mine just described it as feeling "weird"), and penetration only can bring about 25% of women to orgasm. The clit is the best place for the majority of women. Ask your boyfriend if he's willing to try oral on you, using his tongue and lips on your clit and the clitoral hood. He will have to experiment with speed, rhythm, the shape of his tongue, the amount of pressure, etc. and you will HAVE to give him feedback, tell him what works or doesn't. I'd refer you to guides on this, but your body (and needs) will be unique, so you two will need to experiment.
It's possible you may only be able to climax using a small vibrator, but that can be integrated into a fulfilling sex life (for both of you) and as long as you both are comfortable with each other, open, and willing to spend some time getting to know your own (and each other's) bodies, there will be a way to curl your toes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009): Nothing's wrong with you!! It took me over 5 years to figure out how to orgasm with and without a guy. You just need to experiment with touching yourself, him touching you, and random fantasies in your head. Every woman's body is different!
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