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writes:Okay, I don't really know where to start but.. I've liked this guy for a year and we still haven't spoken he's in the year above me at school (i'm 13, he's 14). He smiles at me around school and looks my way when we're in mixed year assemblys and I REALLY like him but the problem is, I just don't know how to talk to him. I'm not actually very shy. He's tried to approach me once but I backed away because I'd had a really bad day. But now I really regret it. I don;t want to wait around for him, so I've decided to talk to him. I just don't know how to approach him, I don't just want to walk up and say 'hi' but something a bit more subtle which I can say with confidence would be great. By the way, he walks home from school my way, which could be a good place to talk to him.So any ideas and getting coversation started and how not to feel nervous?thanks a lot :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009): Do you share classes with him? Or lunch period? If so that could be a place to start, maybe sit at his table with a friend of yours for confidence. If not, then ask him if he wants to walk you home one day. If he says yes, just be yourself. =D
In the meantime, if you see him in the hallway, smile and say hi! And if you have time ask him how he's doing. Hope this helps!
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (12 September 2009):
 Just go up to him and say hi and mention something that happened today and ask a question.For example: Hi, lunch was really good for once don't you think so?orHi, the lecture was sooo boring. I rather be at the beach! What about you?Good Luck!
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