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writes:Can someone tell me what does it mean if you are in a used relationship? And how do you move out or move on out of a relationship like this? Thx...B
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all very much for all the different answers, i did not know different countries and differents sayings.... Anyhow, basically what i was saying is that a few of my friends, the 3 i have, say that i'm in a used relationship, that this guy i'm seeing is just using me, of course i dont see it like that. When i want some 'attention' like want to call to say hi or ask him if we can go out, he always replies that his busy and we can chat later, but later these days never come to pass, but when he wants something i have to jump. He sent me a mail this morning that i should go on with my own life and get a good job and be happy on my own, he will be my friend but thats it.... I just dont want to be his friend so i want to move on be myself before he came around, just not sure how to Gdt over him, move on in other words....
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (11 September 2009):
 One partner is in the relationship for love. The other one is in it for sex, money, drugs, a roof over the head, or whatever.
Therefore, its a one-sided affair. The person who is in it for love is being used by the person who's in it for any other reason but love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009): I think what you ment that your partner is using you.
Is it correct?
If yes, it means that you partner using you just for sex, not giving anything in return, or money or out of boredom. You get out of it just by leaving him/her
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