Do you just run out of love after just 3 days?

A female age 36-40, *ana_love_good writes:

Hi, my boyfriend and I have gone through a lot. He was there trying to be with me, a year ago, when I was having a hard time trying to choose between him and my ex-boyfriend. Well, I finally got my ex out of my life in may of 2009 and my current boyfriend and I started dating on July 4th of this year. Well, things were going ok, except that he didn't have a job and neither did I. He live 25 minutes and I couldn't see him that often. I was a fairly reserved person, except for when I could not see him. He was only able to come see me once a week, so he told me. But he was able to go every where else whenever he wanted. Then when he couldn't see me, on the one day out of the week, I would get upset. I felt that this was my right! Well, it got to the point where I started thinking about breaking up with him, and I brought it to him, and told him why. Now this had happened on more than one occasion, but this time, he snapped. He told me about all of the emotions he had, since I was trying to leave my other boyfriend. He finished with I don't know if I have enough love for you anymore. By this time, I'm in tears, because all I ever asked for was for honesty. I thought everything was ok between us, and I found out it wasn't. So I told him, I would change, I was sorry for always berating him, and making him feel bad. Well, shortly after this everything seemed to be going ok, and he found a job and I started going to school. But then he wouldn't call as much, he didn't want to come see me, and I was being put on the back burner. So I asked him, with a painful heart if he even wanted to be with me. He did not answer. I asked him if he even cared if he broke my heart. He did not answer. He was angry when he finally spoke, and it was like I didn't know him anymore. I asked him how he felt and he said nonchalant. I hung up the phone. It's been four days since we talked. I do see him on myspace, and he still have the pictures of us together and he still says that he feels loved. HE told me he would always love me, and that I was his life, his sun. I know this sounds childish, but my boyfriend usually meant what he said. It just seems like there is more to this situation and I can't understand what it is. I left him an email stating that I knew what I needed to do with my life, but I could not move on until I knew if we were done. It's been two days and no response, but I know he read it. So I don't know if I should wait in agony for him, or move on? I have never been in so much love, in my life. Please help.

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