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writes: Omg plz plz help. I'm 15 and this boy I really really like is 14 but nearly 2 years younger than me. We've known each other for about 3 months now. At first we flirted and talked non-stop. When we went on a school residential we played truth or dare and kissed, flirted the whole time and were always together. Everyone said that we should go out but he'd just broken up with his girlfriend. He's not the type to flirt with anyone and everyone, he's just too nice. I guess I always thought we would eventually go out, that I just had to give him time. But then it was the summer hols. We met up twice and texted for the rest of the time. Now we're back at school and I can't speak to him in school because he's two years below me but he gets my school bus. At first we continued as we had before and all our friends started to say we really suited and should go out again. The problem is that recently I've lost his attention it seems. I catch him looking and sometimes smiling at me but we hardly ever speak. Plz tell me whether I should give up because of the age gap etc or if I should hang on in there. But if so how do i keep his attention?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009): He probably thinks you're not interested so that is why he backed off, but just start talking to him again. When you're a teenager 2 years seems like a huge deal, but it really isn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2009): I don't think you should give up. I would try and sit next to him on the bus one day, and just strike up a conversation. Then maybe ask him if he wants to meet up at the weekend, or if hes going to a party (that you are attending). Keep it casual.If you are still not sure how he feels about you. You will have to ask him.Good luck.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (11 September 2009):
 I wouldn't let a good thing go because of a two-year age gap. You sound as though you've gotten on really well regardless of it.
Why don't you confess your feelings?
If you're too shy for that, then move on unless he makes a move.
Good luck.
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