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We broke up 8 months ago, but I can't move on

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Question - (11 September 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 September 2009)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys I broke up with the love of my life 8months ago but to me it still feels like yesterday. Recently I tried to move on and date other guys but I end up comparing them to him. Sometimes it feels like no one can ever replace him and the sad part is he has moved on with his life. How do I forget him and try to find love again my heart is so painful.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009):

Thank you guys this is so hard for me and the truth is i am not ready to move on at all. On the other side i thought moving on wil make me forget about him but no his always on my mind day and night

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2009):

i am in the same boat! feels like the more guys i meet the more and more i miss him. eventually the feeling will go away, just try to focus on doing things for yourself and someone will come along. good luck

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A female reader, Libra1963  +, writes (11 September 2009):

Libra1963 agony auntYou are not ready for a new relationship yet. You will know when you are ready. It takes a different amount of time for different people.

When you start eyeing up the man at the bus stop or in the super makret, you will now that you are better. It happens to us all.

Don't push it or else it will make you feel worse.

Good luck!

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A female reader, Lola1 Canada +, writes (11 September 2009):

Lola1 agony auntIt's ok to compare potential partners to past loves.

I would suggest you keep doing what you are doing. Some days will seem harder than others, but you'll get through it.

Don't give up.

Good luck!

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