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*k8terGrl498
writes: I been with my boyfriend J for 2 yrs we live together; the only problem is this girl keeps telling him that her baby is his. But i get a diffrent story from my bestfriend Emily who's her sister Kept telling me the baby belongs to her new Boyfriend whose in the Army serving over in Iraq. she always walks into My boyfriend's work clinging to him and kissing him. how can i make her stop and tell her to leave him alone?
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reader, Sk8terGrl498 +, writes (15 September 2008):
Sk8terGrl498 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey everyone thank you for understanding my story. Well we got the news back and it doesn't belong to him. He is really happy and has put a restraining order against her. and now she's leaving him alone. we changed all our numbers and she can't call and beg for his help. well thank you for understanding my problem and hope to follow up with some good news of my own very soon.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (6 September 2008):
Aks the girl for a paternity test for proof of her words.
Then, confront the girl about your feelings of her actions. Tell her to back off and stop pining for your boyfriend. She's might be hurting for her boyfriend going to Iraq but her actions are not an excuse for anything.
Also, have you talked to your boyfried about this? Have you asked him if he has done anything to stop her? Is he also fed up of her actions?
In the end, give her a warning: If she keeps on acting like this then you will put a straining order against her. Before telling her this, though, discuss it with your boyfriend and if he agrees to it, then tell her.
Good luck and I hope this girl understands.
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