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writes:hello. i like this girl a lot and im pretty sure she likes me back but i cant think of how i should ask her out. any help? o and btw this other guy likes her too so i need it quick. plz? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): ask her what shes doing this weekend & see if the two of you can hang out sometime. if your'e in high school & have a homecoming dance, ask her to go with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): Be polite, be direct. Be okay with a no. Be okay with her response she might say something funky out of not having what to say. Ask her 4 days or more ahead of date. Give quality compliments like beauty, classyness, awsome, no grody lust talk. Do your research. IS she religious, hate cussing, talk topics. Use her name, tell her you are nervous it will help you. Take a card with your words, in case you blank. Breathe talk then shut up and wait. No nervous talk, be a cool pick (have a quality building, sport, math) I think you pick movie. Respect her friends. Do not lie or boast. Groom self, light on the cologne girls favor clean soap scent. Ask what she is doing friday( keeps away from yes or no)if busy sat? Tell her you think she's awesome and would shelike to go to a movie? IN front of friends flatters a girl be brave. If no then say you can take that but might try again she's worth the effort and rejection. NO STALKING!
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reader, Belle De Jour  +, writes (6 September 2008):
 well i should make sure that she does actually like me first in that way , it would be really bad if you got the wrong end of the stick and you get all embarased and might hurt the relationship that you to had . on the other hand , if she really does like and and you like her , i would get her when she is alone , face to face and ask her out then , yes it might not be the most romantic thing ervy but at leat it shows heryou had the courage to ask and that you like her , hope it oes well Belle x
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