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writes:Hello. Even though my boyfriend and I have been together for around a month, we have a strong connection. He lost his mother 5 months ago, and I do not know what to tell him to relief his pain. We keep telling him that she's in a better place now. But that's obviously not enough for him. I do not know what else to tell him. Can you help me? thanks. SA Girl Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): It hurts to loose family, believe me...i know. If he crys, cry with him. Let him know your going to be there for him. Lots of love, find something that will take his mind from it...just for awhile. People told me my mom was in a better place, but that made things worse. Y'know thats your mom, shes the one you want when your sick, or when you need something. Its hard, it sucks. Everyone will get that feeling.
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reader, Belle De Jour  +, writes (6 September 2008):
 i think the only thing you can do at the moment is just let him know that you are always there no matter what , and he will get through it . it may seem hard for him at the moment to belive that but as long as he keeps trying to do a few little thing once in a while to get him self n his mind motavated to do things then it wont seem as hard as it is now .. just let him know all the time he is loved and everyone will surport him Belle x
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