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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been having trouble with my boyfriend for a while now. We have been together for 3 years and it seems like everyday our communication and trust is decreasing. I have done somethings to show him how I feel about him but sometimes I feel they get looked over. I know that he loves me but becuase of all the things that we have gone through I think that he is no longer interested in the relationship anymore. I have been feeling like everything comes before me, friends, work. I have to ask him sometimes to come spend time with me or I have to usually call him and lately our conversational pieces have gone down to text messages. I feel like I am getting played for a ride and everthing in my power is telling me to leave him. But on the other hand I love him so much and I want to be with him but in a happy relationship. Is there anything that I can do to get him to love me again like he use to? Please help me
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reader, Marte  +, writes (6 September 2008):
 It sounds like he is taking you for granted, maybe he has other (female) interests elsewhere. Guys are funny like that. They want what they can't have and what they have they get tired of. If you are getting the feeling that you should leave him, then you are probably right. If it was meant to be, he would then at least fight for you. If he doesn't, then you know you are better off without him. Because while you are with him, you are holding yourself back from meeting someone who really does love and respect you, and who actually wants to make time for you. If you are not getting what you need out of the relationship then you need to make it clear to him, and if he doesn't listen to you or change then you know what to do, start walking. And look for a brighter future, because that is what you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): Trust and communication our important. I believe you need
To find out why the other party has changed. Also maybe
Talk to a trusted bf. For advice see what works out the best
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