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writes:i need ur help... there's this guy i like very much, and i THINK he likes me back, since he recently started playing with my hair as a bunch of us were over a friend's house... and another time as we were giving a girl a ride home, me and 2 other guys, me and him sit at the back the other girl sits infront as the other guy drives, he then gets closer to me and holds my hand! what could that mean! we are very very close friends!! we talk everyday, so my question is does he like me back, so is he doing this things cz he feels comfortable around me, us being very close friends. thats what worring me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, abbeymom  +, writes (6 September 2008):
 Okay so to be clear you are worried he did those things just because you are friends and that's all he wants?
I'm going to say he likes you. Those physical gestures are key to liking someone, especially playing with their hair and holding their hand. And if he says he doesn't like you then he's either playing games, or not sure if he wants to take that step beyond your friendship.
Now that is the question you should ask yourself as well. Not that you can't love someone who is your friend. But things WILL change if you move beyond the "Just friends" zone.
If you like him that much. Tell him. Don't play games. Don't wait for him to figure it out. I know that's a scary thought but tell him. Tell him I like you more than a friend and want to know how you feel about that?
Only when you get your answer will you feel better even if it's not the answer you want because you won't be worried anymore wondering what he's thinking. And it's good practice to be upfront with someone. Let's you know you can handle the outcome and still come out of it okay.
Good luck!
~ Abbeymom
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