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female
age
51-59,
*ice bitch
writes:My man is not descriptive of his attraction regulars of women or new interests, he claims to be pristine as men go, he has lied alot and done repeated hidden female related actions (porn , small mistakes with othr women) I have found out on own or from someone else, not ever him unless dragged out of him. I don't know what I should be actioning or thinking about this. Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (6 September 2008):
 You wont trust him because you will be wondering what is true and whats a lie. I tried explaining this to a guy i finished with once. He lied about a couple of things, and even though he wasn't admitting it at the time, i knew he was lying. And the trouble with that is you dont know what part of their life is true and what part isn't. Then when they come clean they wonder why you wont trust them again.
I cant have a relationship with secretive guys. I am too upfront, a person that keeps things back doesn't gel well with me.
C xxxx
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female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 September 2008):
Well you are writing about him as though he is a business proposal so I shall say this:
If he is lying about small mistakes then larger mistakes may follow or may exist but remain hidden.
As an investor in this project I would not be inclined to continue to give, when my feelings are obviously being squandered due to bad management on his part.
I would advise you to withdraw feelings from this individual and find a better prospect.
Good Luck!! xx
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