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writes:I have a boyfriend that I have been with for almost a month and called him on Tuesday wanting to talk to him since I started school the next day, I called while he was eating so I said "How about you call me when you're done?" he said "ok" and that was at 7. I waited till nine...he never called me back. I don't know what to think or wether not to think anything of it. I do not want to be the one that calls him all the time, during the last few weeks, he's only called me twice...I am confused? Anyone with any advice? SHould I worry or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (6 September 2008):
 You are asking the wrong question. You called him, he was busy, you asked him to call you when he was free, he didn't even after he said he would.
Sure, guys don't often call as much as women do. Men and women are different and this is one of the areas in which it shows.
BUT he said he would call in a defined period of time, after dinner, and didn't. That shows he either has a terrible memory or just didn't care.
That should be a sign of worry to you. If he does the same thing in other situations, then it seems clear he isn't willing to spend any time on you when it doesn't suit him.
It is perfectly normal for men to think that a call once a month to say Hi is enough to satisfy all needs for communication. It is NOT okay not to return a call when you said you would. That is just plain rude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008): "to a guy a few weeks seem like a few days" the advice my mother gave me. she also said not to call more than every few days so you don't seem needy. (apparently guys hate needy girls) guys forget things all the time too. so just call him back tomorrow.
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reader, doe44 +, writes (6 September 2008):
You are being played. It is called the game. You are being psyched out until you submit to his voice at his appointed time. run for your live. Many professionals and boys are learning that technique and playing it on girls that they do not want. You will go into depression. You will watch your cell phone day and night, you will cry, you will loose appetite, you will be moody, you will loose focus, you will loose you capacity of complex thinking . all you will want his him. It is not because you love him that is because your mind has become addicted to something and it is hard to go to the withdrawal process. Let him play his game by himself most of them doing this have a disfunctional penis. so there is nothing to enjoy . go Please.
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