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If he said that I was ugly, then why does he keep on staring at me?

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Question - (6 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is this guy in my class. He keeps on looking at me. Last week I heard him call me ugly to his friends. I was right there and heard him. When they look at me in class, I saw that they laughed and smile at each other. I don't even know or associate with this guy. However this guy just keeps on looking at me. Since this guy said I was ugly, why does he keep on looking at me? I don't dress funny or stand out. No, i am not on medication.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2008):

Do you have a mole or a scar or something?

He probably stares at you because he is either in denial or as a guy would salivate over any half-way decent girl with breasts.

Flynn 24

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A female reader, princessjasmine United States +, writes (6 September 2008):

hes bullsh***g, and probably likes you but maybe wants to not be peer pressured by society and rolling with the crowd and being a whimp. Hes too afraid to share his own opinion, are u seen as the loser girl in skool? ur probably gorgeous but b/c u've got some sort of label or something, this guy is being a jackass to u...but i think deep down, hes sincere...its hard wen ur pressured by ur friends but want/desire something else, its a constant tug of war, i think u shud b gutsy and ask him wat the heck his problem is...if he says something like "im notl looking at u" be like, "yea, u were or i wouldnt b wasting my time asking u," and if hes still a jerk, then who cares, let it go, move on, hes a whimp for not being real, and u and I both knkow how important it is to hang around REAL people...take care...and dont u ever feel put down by wat others say, be confident, everyone has an asset, a quality that makes them beautiful...im sure u've got that because God made u, and God doesnt make ugly creations.

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A male reader, pathleasttaken United States +, writes (6 September 2008):

First piece of advice see yourself as special self. Belief is important. People

Will always judge it is important however to see yourself as someone special

Which I know you our or you wouldn't have asked the question

The best

John

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