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writes:I am a freshmen in college and my roommate is a womanizer. Within the past two weeks he has walked in the room with 6 different girls. I feel like this is going to be a problem later on in the year. I feel strangely guilty that I know he is going to have sex with them and never talk to them again. This is also making me feel very aware of my awkwardness around girls because I never go out socially with girls.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 September 2008):
Set up a tally chart and when he walks in with a girl, walk up and mark another one off. Make a comment about how he's doing really well towards his goal of a hundred by christmas and give him a high 5.
If she storms out then she was after a relationship, if she giggles then she's fine.
Any girl that sleeps with a guy on the first date is either an idiot, or not looking for a boyfriend. We know that they are pigs.
Once you've made your point, he should be a bit more discrete.
Don't let his ways affect you though... other than maybe use it as a reason to go out a bit more. Talk to girls while they are sober during the day time, talk to the ones in your classes. You'll find the genuine ones then rather than then drunk party animals.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (6 September 2008):
 Agreeing with "q1605" to some degree - you may learn some useful techniques from close proximity, or possibly more valuable, end up with one or more worthwhile girlfriends on the bounce. Perhaps one or more are not just sluts. Example: MANY years ago, I went through some times when I was cutting a fairly wide swath, although I would usually date each one for a good while before moving on. My roommate at the time tended to pickup on the aftermath and eventually married one of them. So, don't let it affect your studies or anything like that, but you are not responsible for his actions - and you may possibly gain something from being around if you can tolerate it.
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