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The problems in our relationship is making me think if I should terminate my pregnancy!

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Question - (6 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 September 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *ojira343 writes:

me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years ive been pregnant befor with him, i didnt keep the baby....later im now pregnant again....we were having some major problems befor we knew and he wanted to move far away, i found out i was pregnant and im not sure if i should keep the baby....he wont see me or talk to me really he said he never wanted to be with me in the first place then on the other hand he sometimes says he loves me and wants to be with me i have no clue what to say to him or what to do hes drgging me through the mud and i dont feel like i deserve this but i want to keep the baby....but i dont want him to be the way he is to our child i dont know whats right

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (6 September 2008):

Keep the baby. You wont have to deal with him that much if you dont want to. Who knows maybe he wont want the baby and he'll sign his rights away and you wont have to deal with him at all.

You do need to leave you boyfriend and meet someone better but (excuse the bluntness) dont kill your baby. It didn't do anything wrong. Start your life over with a beautiful child and only worry about you and the baby.

I hope that helps.

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A male reader, help4u United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2008):

it sounds as if you are stuck between two decisions here, my suggestion is for both of you to sit down and talk about what you are both feeling and where you both want the relationship to go, tell him that you want to keep the baby and that you would like him to be there for you and your child but in order for him to do that he would have to start realising what he is saying and make his mind up, there is a 50/50 percent chance he will listen depending on what kind of guy he is, just reassure him that 3 years is a long time just to throw away like that, only do these things if you feel that you still want the relationship to go on, if this does not work for you then maybe it is time to move on and think about the baby, i hope you make a right decision on whether or not you are going to keep the baby good luck for the future.

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