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female
age
36-40,
*anite
writes:hi everyone, i just got conffused, i mate this guy on a job trainig two months before, and we r getting close to each other, he used to come to my room in the evening and we talk for hours, we share secrets and everything. and one night on our get togther party, we kissed. we kissed so deeply. i really enjoyed that night but the next day he said "it was an accident and lets just take it as a memorable night".i was like.... what? i liked the guy before that day and when we kissed, that night i thought that he was also feeling the same. now we are both pretending like nothing happend, though he keeps calling me in two or three days. but the thing is i couldn't get him out of my mind. should i tell him how i feel about him or....???i start working so hard for a long time inorder not to think about him. what do u think i should do? was it really an accident or is he just playing games on me? tell me something am really confused.thanx. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): It sounds like it was a kiss and a kiss is just a kiss until it is something different.....helpful, right? But, seriously, he will have to ask you out if he wants to get to know you better, I would not tell him how you feel as he may feel that as pressure from you....guys pretty much do what they want to do....and if he wanted to ask you out for a date, he would or will....Just keep being his friend, talk, smile don't mention anything about not seeing him again....let him chase you....men like that..it may be that he does not want to jeopardize his job by dating you, as work romances can be pretty tricky, especially if they don't work out....so just relax and don't worry too much about it, I am sure he was attracted, hence the kiss...hope this helped you in some small way.
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