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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My other half is a soldier and has just got back from afghanistan, he has been strange since he came back but now he has finished me and he wont tell me why. What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hello I am female anon who answered earlier. Good advice you got from 'Collaroy' too. I hope you are ok. Good luck x
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 Hi,
As a soldier he may very well have been exposed to some conditions which make adjusting to life back in society very difficult.
There is little you can do at this time, but have you talked to his parents/siblings/friends? Chances are he will need time to adjust but you may have to accept that war has turned him into a different person and that you need to go your seperate ways.
What you shouldnt do is put yourself on the backburner hoping he will come round.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Agree with waterloo sunset. Try and talk to him but be prepared for it to go either way. You are young - I presume he is quite young too. If he has got messed up out there, unfortunately it might not bode well for a future relationship even if you do stay together cos damaged people often end up damaging the ones they love. Take care x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Try and get him to talk, but if he wont then there isnt much you can do. We cannot make people talk to us. Maybe he saw things out there that could of upset him very deeply. Why not give him some time away from you and then try and approach him again. If not, then please just find it in yourself to move on and make a new fresh start for yourself without him.
take carexx
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