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30-35,
*anukiSamurai17
writes:Hey, i gots a problem i'm really torn between my GF and my best friend thats a girl. My GF i really care about and would hate to hurt her, we have been going out for a month and have't gone further than making out she's 17, i'm 15. My other friend, lets call her Rachel is my bestfriend at my school i have guys i could call best friends but, i could tell Rachel anything and she could say the same to me. Whenever we see each other we hug and the same when we say goodbye. As you can tell we are great friends but i know that if we were more than friends it would be a love for the ages and whenever i think about it i feel as if i belong to her and only her. I've told her a little about how i feel and said she wasn't ready for a BF and later during the year she got a BF around the time i got togeather w/ my current GF long story short Rachel's gf broke up with her on valentine's day so she's currently single.The question is life to short to be with the wrong person?
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reader, mightyhawk  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 just by the way you asked the question, it is obvious you don't feel much for the girl you're currently with. Could it be that you got together with her because you were slightly jealous of the fact your friend got together with her boyfriend? It is a bit soon to be jumping questions on your friend when she has just gone through a break up. My advice would be to not act so quickly, as you could really regret it if you went out with this girl, then ended up spitting up or getting rejected, as it would effect your friendship. You shuld weigh up whether you wat to take that risk. It sounds like you have a really good friendship with her, and personally I wouldn't want to risk it. You have to remember girls are normally more sensitive than boys anyway, so it will naturally seem that you have a more intimate relationship with her than your mal friends. I hope I have helped.
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