I can't seem to get over the past, but is it always best to speak up about my feelings?

A female age 41-50, *ackadocous writes:

Well i'm back again. My mind keeps thinking about the situation before with my fiance and my godsister. I don't quite know how to deal with it because one day i am fine and the next day i'm mad and zapping out. It also ran across my mind to get even with my godsister but what will that solve....nothing. My fiance has been in the house ever since i found out. It's like he is trying to make sure that i know that he not going anywhere. But all i keep thinking about is how blinded i was and still am cause i really haven't came to grips that HE would do something like that. To me he is still my angel but on the other hand he did betray me. My godsister doen't understand that we need time to ourselves right now and i am being blunt about it. What should i do about the way i'm feeling? Should i always tell him what i'm feeling? Or will that discourage him from trying to keep our relationship going? Should i control my emotions toward my godsister (cause i zapp out every now and then)?

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