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writes:When I get hurt by a guy badly I try to hurt myself- either by cutting, eating barely anything to the point i get severe pains in my stomahce or over exercising to the point that I almost faint. And no i dont think im fat or anything. I havent done the cutting in years though...but the other two things I do still. Its the only way I know how to take away the pain that they cause me. I dont know what else to do. My mum doesnt know I do any of this. But she tells me boys are never worth my tears...but I dont know how to stop crying and hurting myself. I just want to feel better. You probably think im some immature teenager or something right now, but im not, im 19 years old. i know what im doing is wrong but i just dont know how to stop and feel better. i feel so lost. Hurting myself does relieve the pain for a bit, but the pain does come back. in the end the only thing that stops the pain is feeling loved by the person who is hurting me. But i only do this when a guy hurts me, if its a female i dont...its weird. please help me :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): You don't need other people to love you, you need to love yourself. You need to find the little girl inside of you that was told she wasn't lovable and give her a great big hug and tell her everything is going to be alright and then hand in hand march off to a therapist's office.Please learn to love yourself first and then others will love you too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hi Hunny
YOU NEED TO GO TO A DOCTOR PRONTO!!!!!
You are in need of very serious help my sweetheart and now.
http://www.selfharm.org.uk/default.aspa
Here is a link to help with the self harm and sweetheart please go to your doctor and get all the help you can now before it is to late!!!!!!!!!!!!
http://www.eating-disorders.org.uk/info.htm
Here is some self help for eating disorders not one person that hurts you is not somehow hurting inside themselves so hunny get help and get strong and message me anytime for support as ive been there and im now better TAKE CARE WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 This is very serious, too serious for this forum. You need to get some face to face therapy honey. Talk to your mom, she will help you get the help you need. Things happen that you can't control so you do things that you can control like starving yourself and forcing the extreme exercising. This is a spiral that is very vicious and very difficult to overcome without the help of a therapist. Please talk to mom.
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