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*imelord187
writes:i want to have sex but my girlfriend doesnt want to until engagement. Should i try to push for sex or just respect her wishes and hope for the best?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Rule for everything in life: If it doesn't work out, don't push!!
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reader, hello1  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 HELLO? You can't make her do anything she dosen't want too do. If you push and she dosen't want it, that's called rape. You are both very young, maybe you could propose too her? lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Definately respect her wishes, not only will the actual moment be so much better but she will be able to see exactly how much you care and respect her feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): your girlfiend will repsect you so much more for respecting her wishes! my boyfriend respects all my morals and wishes and it gets him so much further for doing that!all i can say is dont push her into it either she obviously knows what she wants and she's testing to see if you are right for her!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 Saying is one thing and doing it is another .
You may have those ideals but when certain conditions are present ,unexpected things do happen.We can promise ourself but sometimes it is hard to keep them.
When everything is right, things will just fall into place.
Be respectful and do not go where she won't.
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reader, polarkite +, writes (25 February 2008):
 Bottom line: If a girl wants to wait, she wants to wait! Don't be pushy, ever!
I would suggest talking about sex with her more, and understand her feelings about it.
If you are in a serious relationship, I suggest realizing the level of commitment ahead of you.
If you are not in a serious relationship, I suggest realizing that you can always walk away.
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (25 February 2008):
Respect her wishes. A woman is allowed to change her mind even if you are right on the edge. If you push her into it you could be committing a sexual assault with very serious repercussions for the rest of your life. Plus you stand to lose the respect and interest of a girl that you seem to really like. Waiting won't hurt you.
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