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*ezzie813
writes:Hi Cupid, I have a boy problem... you see there is this boy and I really like him I mean my heart beats faster just thinking about him. The thing is he has a girl friend. I have already told him that I liked him but he kind of veers away from the subject. I need help I am not sure what to do all I know is I think I am in love with a person thats not in love with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2008): I agree with 'Ask oldersister'! How dare you trash us when we have taken time out of our valuable and meaningful lives to answer you PATHETIC question. You clearly didnt like what you were told, so you came back like this. Why ask the quetion in the first place if you knew the answer.
WAKE UP - HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Dezzie813 +, writes (1 March 2008):
Dezzie813 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok listen all of you people above me, I am the one who wrote this question and I have to say you people aren't being very fair... you don't know everything... you can't say that he doesn't love me because you don't know the whole situation, I was looking for advice not demands. He may have a girlfriend but that does not mean that I have no chance. The first person made the most sense saying how I still have a chance but I need 2 back off and just take a break and let him go through his own priorities so thank you. The rest of you before you go telling me to leave him alone and tell me to think of his girlfriend, you need to be in my position and understand what I AM GOING THROUGH!!! So thanks for your time but no thanks for the bad advice. I was looking for a little support and some help to understand other views but not since everyone is going to question my thoughts and tell me I am just being selfish.
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reader, gabba's say  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 yeah, he is spoken for. Try not to step on other peoples turf as it will shape you into a nasty person which may, In time, Become your destiny. Regonise the mistakes you make and learn from them. (and obviously try not to repeat the mistake) We all want what we cant have. It is a natural thing. It also sounds like a "minxy crush" and not love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): He isnt in love with you now and never will be, HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND!! How loud do you want me to shout it, wake up and smell the coffee, why are you hanging around someone who isnt available. Walk away with your head held high and get a bloke of your own and not someone else's. How would you feel if you were his gf and someone was stalking him? Not good, so get away from him before you really get hurt.
take care
xx
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