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writes:i really want a boyfriend but my mam is really overprotective of me and hardly lets me outside the house i dont no why but i just really want a boyfriend! any advice on what i should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): How lucky are you? You have a mom that really cares about you and wants to see you have a happy life and not be stuck with a boyfriend that won't care about you .....at your age I am afraid boys are terrible boyfriends.....they will change in a few years and then things may be a bit different for you....want you want right now is freinds....of both sexes......just kids to hang out with and do fun things with......tell your mom you want to go on some supervised activities and that you understand why sheh does not think it is time for you to have a boyfriend....thank her for caring about you and I am sure she sees how fast you are growing up and how pretty you are and she wants to make sure you get a good education so you can have a happy life, not like some of the other girls who parents don't care about them that end up sexually active too soon, unwanted pregnancies and even get abused by their so called boyfriends....it can be a crazy world, so listen to your mom and go to her for advice, keep your communication open with her, tell her how you are feeling and I am sure she will be there for you when you need her.....Take care and enjoy being a kid!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): I can understand both sides. When i was your age my mam was just the same, i was kept in and couldnt have a bf until i was 15. Now i am a gran, i think she is wise to keep an eye on you. Bf days will come soon enough along with the heartaches that they bring. Just be grateful that you have a mam that cares and not a one that sends you out on a morning and couldnt give a damn whether you come home today or tomorrow. Give her loads of hugs and love on Sunday.
take care
xx
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