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writes:The man i am dating the last year sometimes he goes out to social occasions without telling me to go with him. He usually tells me after, that he went to a social event. Should i tell him that i would like to invite me to these events or not telling him anything and act like i don't really care and it doesn't really matters for me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 Some men are obtuse and sometimes just selfish. They have a simple mind and they never give a thought if you are also interested to come along.
If you are interested, you need to tell him directly that you would love to go out with him to some of those future events. The ball would be at his feet. Let him know where you stand.
Don't torture yourself and suppress your wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hi Hunny
You could just say quite naturally oh the next time you go out hunny it would be nice to come along if thats ok, Just to let him no you are iterested and if its a man thing a night out with the boys social type of event then he will tell you. Dont take it to heart just mention it and if it goes no were forget it for awhile and see if in the future he then asks you love hope that helped TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, polarkite  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 Why is it so important to go to these events? Is it really going to these events, or is it that he's not taking you?
Is your relationship not working out in other ways? I'm guessing this event situation is just the tip of the ice berg.
Sounds like both of you are playing games with each other.
I imagine you just want to spend more quality time with this guy, or you wish he would be more open with you.
You should also realize it might be good for him to get space outside your relationship.
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