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writes:Ive been with him a very long time (over 2 years) he used to tell me that he hated cheats and lies i thought i could always trust him, its a long distant relasionship. I love him but it hurts, recently i found out he cheated. He says it was a mistake and hates the girl, but this girl keeps sayin there together etc. He says its all lies. i dont no what to do or what to belive. I love him i cant get that out of my head but it hurts, i havent seen him in ages because long distant things he says he cant come see me yet. what do i do? im stuck everythings just a mess?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Honey, let me say that I know what you're going through. About a month ago I found out that my long-distance boyfriend had another girlfriend where he lives the whole time. It hurts. A lot. But you are a strong person who can make it through this. Listen to me on this one: You deserve so much better than this liar! My ex always said that he would never cheat on me and that I had nothing to worry about, and guess what? I did. People always asked me "Why are you doing a long-distance relationship? All he's gonna do is cheat on you." I DEFENDED HIM. I LOVED HIM. And I know that I have to let him go. This guy is just trying to play on your emotions and get you to forgive him when he knows he doesn't deserve it. I know it's easier said than done, but try to find someone closer to home who truly does love you (cause loving someone doesn't involve cheating) and would never do that to you. It will happen, and guys like that do exist!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2008): Some men like having their cake and eating it. It sounds like he won't commit. Why haven't you got married or moved in together? Ask yourself that question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replys both ansers are very helpfull =] xxxx
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (25 February 2008):
 Babe i know you love him but can you really trsut him, i was in a long distance relationship and i know how hard they are and its always in the back of your mind that maybe they are sleeping around.
This girl is either tellin the truth or just trying to make trouble the question is do you think she is telling the truth? If there is any doubt at all then maybe you should just end it.
You said yourself you dont see him that often and huni your still very young to give your heart to someone so far away. Why not find someone else who is nearer it has to be less hassel and then you wouldnt have doubts if he is cheating or not.
I know its not that simple but you have to do whats right for you, do you really want this stress he cheated before and got away with it whats stopping him from doing it again when he knows you will forgive him. I dont think he deserves your love if he is just messing with you i gotta say you deserve better not this guy.
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