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Is it true that men want what they can't have?

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Question - (25 February 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

is it true that men want what they cant have?

I've been told many times that the reason why the guy i used to like started talking to me again is because he found out that someone else is interested in me and im over him.Now he has been trying to talk to me every single say.so I'm just wondering is it really true?

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A female reader, Davidla United States +, writes (26 June 2009):

Why is it hard to express feelings and sometimes the wrong things come out im very into this woman the problem is shes in a committed relation.Having problems expressing my feelings.I know she feels the same way i just keep putting her off and saying dumb things...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

I swear, I'm going thru the exact same thing!! I told my dude that I liked him a month ago & then I left him alone b/c he said he didn't feel the same way. Then I started going out more, talking to ther guys. Ever since then, he's stopped flirting with other girls, been really curious about the guys I meet & always trying to talk to me and get my attention! It's so damn annoying b/c just when you think you're over the guy, he comes crawling back into your life. *sigh* It's the damn thrill of the chase! Hope everything worked out for you :)

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A female reader, lushlass93 United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2008):

lushlass93 agony auntthe same thing has happend to me

ithink everyone wants what they cant have so we should all becarefuk and make sure we defintly want what we want before we make the wrong decision

if you are not interested in your ex dont get back with him he probabaly does only want you because he cant have you

good luckxxxx

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A female reader, noodles113 United Kingdom +, writes (25 February 2008):

i believe youre right!! my ex split with me and i was absolutely devastated as i loved him so much! months down the line i got with someone else, my ex has found out and he's now telling me he wants me back! at the moment its really bothering me cus i know i still love him! but ..... im with someone else! so yeah men want what they cant have we should all just face it!

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A male reader, polarkite United States +, writes (25 February 2008):

polarkite agony auntA man wants to work to get a woman, not just pick her off a tree. It fulfils his sense of adventure, by obtaining something difficult to get. It's like finding a prized jewel in a lost city. I know, we men, are strange beings.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (25 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntIf a woman gives in easily , the men would think she is cheap and would in the back of their mind think that she is easily available and hence not valued or appreciated.

He would rather prefer a woman after a hard chase and he would value and appreciate her more.

If she plays hard to get, she may remain forever on the shelf.

So a woman needs to walk somewhere in between those two extremes.

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