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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Something strange is going on and I'm unsure what to do about it.Firstly I had a valentines card sent to my place of work. I immediately knew it was a hoax because they referred to something that just wasn't possible plus I was suspicious as the card was not handwritten. Anyway, a mobile number was included but I did not attempt to use it.A week later I received an anonymous letter, also sent to my work. It gave me another mobile number and told me to call it as it may be of interest to me. I showed my friend the letter and she called the number but got no answer. I figured it couldn't be that important if they didn't answer.I've now had another letter telling me that the mobile number was that of my ex's current girlfriend. The letter said something about did I think my ex knew that his girlfriend was giving out her mobile number to men she didn't know. The letter also said that they were getting married and did I know.My ex and I have a child together but we do not get on and I disapprove of his girlfriend because she has been threatening towards me and our child. I really don't care what they get up to so long as they leave me out of it and my child is safe. I've always been in favour of children maintaining a relationship with an absent parent but I'm seriously considering moving out of the area just to get away from them.Should I confront my ex with these letters? For all I know he may be in on the hoax. And if he's not I know he won't do anything about them. But maybe I should just make him aware that I don't appreciate being drawn into his torrid life and that I shall be passing the letters onto my solicitor?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 Since the letters refer to his girlfriend you can just tell him what the letters said and that you will be giving them to your lawyer, nuff said. I think this nonsense will stop right quick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): yes u should tell him & make sure to include that about your solicitor aswell. it might get worse otherwise. good luck.
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