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anonymous
writes:I am getting married in Oct BUT suddenly a whole bunch of stuff has occurried.1) I never dealt with an abortion I had 13 years ago2) He has not disclosed a criminal act he did prior to our getting together - we've been together for 12 years and he told me 2 days ago the he has this secret but no details3) I have now developed a hugh crush on my priest and can't seem to shake itSo what now?
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 I agree with eyeswideopen, marriage is hard enough it is really not a good idea to start off with problems. You need to communicate with your fiance and figure out what your next step will be. I suggest you postpone the wedding until you are sure. As far as the crush on the priest, let it go.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 February 2008):
 DO NOT get married until you have sorted all this out to your complete satisfaction. You obviously are not ready maybe by October but maybe not. Marriage should never BEGIN with problems.
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