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writes:me and this guy i got with i thought he was just the type to just kiss but one day we went to his house to play some games, but then he ended up taking off clothes but i didn't let him take off my pants but he was about to so,it was a little bit rushing and i don't really know how to tell him that without being rude about it.
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reader, lushlass93  +, writes (25 February 2008):
 it doesnt matter how rude you are if you are not ready you are not readytell him your not say how you feel if he cant take that then finish him because that means he only wants 1 thing from youif he is ready to wait for you then you should stay with him because he really will wait for youremember the sex age is 16 but if you do it younger make sure its with the right persongood luckxxx
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (25 February 2008):
Hi, you can also tell him to back off and remind him that you are really too young and not ready for that yet.
If he does not accept no for an answer, dump him as clearly he is not worth it. If he is still pushy, tell an adult. You need never fear that you have to face these kinds of challenges alone.
Good on you for knowing where your limits are and for sticking with them.
As for being rude, if he is pushy then he is the one being rude. Be blunt if you need to in order to get the message over to him.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hi Hunny
He is a tad quick on the expectation mark sweetpea, I would just say hey hold on Im not ready for this mate its not a race so slow down, And sweetheart if he doesnt listen then he is not worth your time as he should have respect for your wishes and the utmost respect for your body TAKE CARE AND WELL DONE YOU LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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