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writes: ok so here it goes. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs and we have a 3yr old daugther. our relationship is not the greatest. he has cheated on me before(more that once) and right now we went from living together to me and my daughter living at my parents and him at his mom's. he seems to be fine with that but not me. I just don't see us having a future. however, lately I've been very eager to have another child. event hough I know I'm not 100% ready. is that being selfish because of the situation I'm in or should I go ahead and give my daughter a sibling? I'm confused. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hi Hunny
You are confussed and under the circumstances Id say no sweetheart, Now is the time for you to get strong and just spend quality time with your daughter, There is a big age gap between my children 26 18 10 and im glad I did it this way, Ive been through alot and even though I wouldnt wish to change my past for then I wouldnt have my beautiful children but I went through a horrible time when pregnant with my little girl the youngest. As my husband was a first rate arse and we had planned the pregnancy and I had changed my mind as he was a first rate arse but I was pregnant as I spoke.
I love my children so much but ive made mistakes and learned from them and you get strong and be absolutly 110% sure before you have to face this love ill send you a link on self esteem...
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php
Have a read as you must have had your knocked so many times hunny TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, emsy0002005  +, writes (25 February 2008):
if your realionship isnt great if hes cheated on you more than once im sorry but he cant truley love you and im sure you deserve to have a child with someone who loves you
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