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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 and a half months and my girl just out of a 3 year relationship and she still wants to hang out with her ex boyfriend every now and then but she tells me she doesnt have feelings for him anymore or anything , she tells me hes just a friend. I dont think they should hang out. What should i say to her about this situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): Hi hun, if your girlfriend is being honest about meeting up with him then maybe you should just trust her. I have friends who I used to date, and when we meet up I tell my husband everything, he respects my honesty. It's better than her sneaking about behind your back. Why not suggest you all meet up one time, to put your mind at rest? But honestly, it doesn't seem as if she's done anything wrong. Best of luck xx
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reader, jabey  +, writes (22 February 2008):
it is possible for people to be friends with their exes, but unfortunately this often causes disharmony in present relationships. its bound to be unnerving for the new partner. personally, i feel if a new partner feels unhappy with this it is ok to express it, and in all fairness i think if she respects you and cares about you she will respect your wishes.
Otherwise as suggested if he is just a friend there is no reason why you cannot be involved in the friendship too.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Hi
Hang out with you and him? Because anything else would come across as a bit weird to me.
If she wants to hang out with him that much, why did they split in the first place?
If she doesnt want to involve you in this 'friendship' then its dodgy in my opinion.
C xxxxx
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