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writes:I'm a 13yr old girl and I just got asked out by a boy in my class. He's 13 too and he's a real sweet person. I started going out with him today and he's talked to me today abit but he looks really shy. Since we're going out should I hold his hand? hug him? or kiss him? I'm asking you guys what I should do to show him I care about him. I'm also a shy girl. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2011): Hi, I'm 13 too, know how you feel! Its good to go out with a big group of friends together but don't let them force you into anything like kissing or whatever that is a private and special moment that isn't meant to be goggled at! But it will make you feel more relaxed and also your friends will make friendly banter about the fact you are going out which will make it less harder to bring up the subject of you holding hands or whatever. Wait till the time is right and if you feel like taking his hand, take it! Go on dates to the cinema aswell, less smalltalk, less akwardness also more time to get closer. Romcoms and horrors are good for cinema dates as you can hold hands at scary or romantic moments and at the end you might get a sneaky peck on the lips. If you want to kiss when you are in school or out with friends just walk somewhere a little more private so it's just you two and go for it. It's fine to hold hands/kiss/hug I mean you are going out I hardly thik he'd be shocked to the core! Don't stress. He asked you out cause he liked you, not for you to become a nervous wreck! If you don't go for it then maybe noone will!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): well if hes shy u might not wanna get to close! But defidentelly open up to him! Just bcuz hes ur bf doesnt mean u have to have immediate physical touching! Set boundries...talk to him and c whats on his mind dont get as serious as kissing until u know hes a good guy!
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reader, just-ask-xx  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Ok, well I would start off with holding his hand, it's not as forward as a hug or a kiss but it still shows you care. And things will probably go on from there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): The answer would be: Yes, yesd, and yes. I'm a guy. We like that. (I go for the 'short but sweet' answers)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Bloomin heck - I first kissed a boy in yr 4!Go for what ever feels good - you never know.If this is what I think it is then "going out" means dancing at the once-a-year disco and kissing in "truth or Dare". No problem. If you're shy then it's best to get him in a quiet area, not on his own (that can be intimidating), so that you get a boost from surrounding people.He will probably try and talk to you as little as possible. Don't try and do anything that involves him having to snog you - he could be put off, and DON'T just kiss him because your mates say you should.Good luck with you new boy friend.Jelly
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Do what ever comes naturally. You both sound shy, so try to talk to him as much as you can, and dont let anyone push you into doing anything you dont want to. Then arrange a date, and see what happens!
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