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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been together almost 7 years now, we dont live together and we dont talk about the future, he lives at home and is very close with his mom, i like that they are close but he cant even go out anywhere with out calling her. i only see him about 3 times a month, i love him a lot and i am scared to let him go, but what else can i do? he wont move out and he wont make more time for me. i spoil him, and support him no matter what he does, when i try to tell him about something im interested in he changes the subject. what do i do?
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reader, faith_believe_love  +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Hi,.I wondered how the two of you work that relationship for 7 years?and the fact that you two only seen each other 3x a month plus the 2 of you dont live together and you said dont talk about the future.Hes a Mama's boy since you said that caouldnt even go out without calling her mum.Definitely that kind of guy dont have a "BACKBONE"he only depends on her mum.I understand you i can see that you really do love him but are you sure he is the man you wanted to spend the rest of your life with??You see when the two of you settled just think about the circumstances you'll be in all of the things and decisions he will make will be known by his mother and your 2nd.Just think about it Girl dont keep on spoiling him.Looks to me that your the only one who is serious in these relationship.GOod LucK!!!
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