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I feel threatened that if I tell this guy my feelings he will ignore me...

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Question - (22 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 February 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, *ace_mr.muffles writes:

hi guys need an answer asap explanations are below please help - I'm in grade 8 now ... and 1/2

First off, I moved to a different country when I was in grade 6. I was very very very quiet and shy then, and Ii don't usually talk to anybody, I spent my lunch breaks sittng on the grassy fields, anyways when I was in grade 6 I didn't really pay any atttention to him.

Since grade 7 and 8 I can't stop thinking about him, I've had a huge crush on him since grade 6 and I don't think I like him since I don't really take the initiative to talk to him and most of the time i just ignore him cuz I'm scared I'm gonna make a fool out of myself, oh by the way he's still in my class since grade 6 when I moved he was in my class for three years now (homeroom)

I want to tell him how I feel cuz all of my frieds says it's obvious he likes me (by the way he's kind hearted, sociable, popular, funny, always makes me laugh but he doesn't know, cute, and omg he's just awsome) but I'm going the other way around and don't want to tell him cuz this year my friend just confessed that she likes him and he seldomly ignores her so I talk to him and he told me why -- he doesn't know what to say since he has a different girl he likes

please help

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A female reader, Aylarsh United States +, writes (23 February 2008):

Aylarsh agony auntYou aren't neing selfish but if you don't want to go for it don't. He's going to lose interest in you and all you'll do is wonder.

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A female reader, jace_mr.muffles Canada +, writes (23 February 2008):

jace_mr.muffles is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hey thnxs will? anyways about that topic i cant get over him everytime i want to forget about him i always get hit by a very very big stupid vibe thing that tells me to still like him i've never dated, never kisses anyone never do any sexual stuff .... im just not the type of girl anyways thnxs for answering hope for ure advice next time im in trouble by the way jace is he's middle name and mr. muffles is the teddy bear someone gave to me secretly dont really know who they are but he kissed it so i cherries and adored mr. muffles alot and he named it too he's been a good best freind to me and i dont wanna ruin it just bcuz im selfish

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A female reader, Aylarsh United States +, writes (23 February 2008):

Aylarsh agony auntI'm saying that he likes you. Your friend though has recently said she likes him but pretty much ask him to hangout maybe or get him alone and tell him. Stress that you have liked him for awhile but that you don't want your friend to know that you ahve done this. Eventually come out that you do like him and if it works out you two will be together. If your friends care about you they will be happy that you are finally with him. You technically have first dibs but really he doesn't like her so you should try your self. He wont ignore you unless you make the situation akward. Come out with it Casually.

Have any questions then message me k love.

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A male reader, will United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

will agony aunthey im kinda the same age as u n im tellin u he will defo wana know how u feel. you say u guys get along so its not like ur goin up to a complete stranger so theres not gona be any wierdness about it i think u should jst put ur self out there let him no how u feel or its gona be to late. x

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