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writes:I was with a man I like so much and he invited me over and hopefully we are going to be going out as boyfriend/girlfriend soon! We had a lot of fun and I am so into him as he is into me I know well.We talked alot and he mentioned how "nuts" it would be us all living together since I have skin allergies and we would have 2 of everything from detergent to soap and we laughed alot and I said yeah that would be fun shopping.I am wondering I think he sees us more serious and I am happy as hell about it but was surprised to hear him bring that up.He sees us in the future living together? I know he calls me ALOT always telling me he is thinking of me alot too.One problem, we work together and I think I would have to find another job if we decided to do that since he makes alot more than I do.Also, I have never felt more connected to someone since we are best friends first and took our time getting hooked up.We had sex and it was awesome and he said my name a few times during it, which blew me away. :) I do see us going strong and no end in sight now as well but taking it one day at a time too. I think he feels the same way and I am fully enjoying being with him anytime anyplace :). Do you all think he is seeing us more serious too?
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reader, tobme +, writes (23 February 2008):
tobme is verified as being by the original poster of the question Aww thanks to you both on great advice! I am taking one day at a time and after being his friend for over a year and a half I waited to see what could be happening now. I beleive that its worth the wait and I said that to him last night as he smiled greatly as well.No matter what he will always be my best friend and lover now I know. :)I think we will move along happily and strong as well.More nights to come with me being over there with him at his house and me being so very comfortable doing so.He just looks at me smiling and will always be touching me one way or another there.Kisses all the time too.My favorite thing was when he was looking in my eyes and me looking at him and he taps my nose and tells me I am beautiful or perfect.I smile alot remebering these new memories :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Hi Hunny
He sounds well into you sweetheart, Everything sounds wonderfull...Take everyday as it comes and enjoy it hunny enjoy every moment good luck and MUCH LOVE TO YOU MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Namatjira  +, writes (22 February 2008):
I think it is quite possible that he sees your relationship as continuing and developing further. What I would say though is that you are still in that early stage of euphoria and so I would encourage you to not make any major decisions yet. Just enjoy the moment. These early days of a new love are often so fleeting and yet we rush to get through them.
Take each day on its own merits and just enjoy it. Of course keep an eye on where things are going, but don't worry about making long term decisions yet.
Just enjoy the life and love you have and live each day in its own capsule. Good luck.
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