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writes:Do most women enjoy giving a blow job or do they do it because their mate pushed them to? How do you convince your mate to do it without you asking and many times giving you the ultimate rejection?
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reader, wildman +, writes (3 March 2008):
wildman is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the answers, everything helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): Well, do you mean fellatio as foreplay or as allowing you to ejaculate in her mouth and her possibly swallowing. I think that most women like "giving head", at least from my limited experience 30 yeara ago. However, a lot less like allowing you to ejaculate in their mouth. I have had 2 women do that. One was a past girlfriend and she seemed to do it because I spent a lot of time giving her oral orgasms. I didn't ask her to do it and I don't think she liked it much. However, she did not gag or make a funny face. She was very good at it, so I think she had done it a lot. My wife, on the other hand, likes to do it to me and will do it if I ask or not. I have never asked a woman to do it first.
My wife always liked to give head, but I was the first guy she ever allowed to ejaculate in her mouth. She was also the first woman to do that to me. That was after we had been dating for a few months and were getting really close. We liked to watch porn together and one time the woman swallowed. My girlfriend (wife now) said that was somethimg that she had never allowed a guy to do. She said that no one had ever asked, but she thought that some guys had tried to hide when they were getting close but that she could always tell and would stop. I wish I could remember how I hinted to her, but after a couple of weeks she said, "You want to cum in my mouth, don't you." I said that I would like that and she did it. She didn't like the taste, but found it very erotic and has liked it ever since. Of course, I had always spent a lot of time giving her oral and liked it a lot and she knew that I liked to do it to her.
I know that this doesn't tell you how to bring it up, but if the 2 of you like watching porn together, you might want to get a movie where this happens. By the way, my wife much later discovered mints. Eating a strong mint before makes the taste much better. I think that you are much more likely to get her to do it if you also spend a lot of time giving her oral. My wife got excited at the thought the first time and wanted to try it. Perhaps I was the first guy that she wanted to do it to because I was also the first guy who spent a lot of time giving her oral. Giving her pleasure will greatly increase the chances of her wanting to reciprocate. We have always liked doing that to each other a lot. It is not fair at all to expect what you do not also give. By the way, I would never want to pressure the woman to do it if they don't want to. One girlfriend never got close to giving me oral and I never asked and we had good sex together.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 February 2008):
 I'm not sure about other men, but in some 45 years of sexual experience, I cannot recall a single time that I first asked a girlfriend to give me head. Later on, after they had done it a few times and oral became part of our sex life, then sure, occasionally I would ask my lady for some oral pleasure, usually by saying something like, "Would you enjoy a cocktail right now?" or "How about a little relief?" and they would know what I meant. Sometimes, perhaps more directly, but I don't think I ever asked a new girlfriend.
Instead, I would either offer or just start going down on the lady very passionately one night once became intimate, and in almost every case, the tables turned, at least eventually. Then it was pretty much one of the things we would do regularly, but I would almost always give the lady pleasure first.
So in my opinion, it is a bit more "cool" to just start pleasing the lady orally, and let her do as she pleases. She will probably rock your world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): You might as well ask the same about cunninglus. Do you enjoy going down on a girl or do you have to be pressured into it?Some women do enjoy it, some hate it with a passion and for the rest it is just part of the sexual activity. They do it because there partner likes it and they want to do this for him.The easiest way to convince a woman to do anything is to sexually satisfy her and then some. If you turn her into a quivering heap everytime she is far more likely to return the favour as it were then if an orgasm is something she read about in cosmo.You would have to find a real prude in this day and age who isn't aware of the act, so the only thing that remains is get her motivated to make you happy. Making her happy is the easiest way to ensure this.Some women dislike the act itself, this can be because they think it is demeaning and the way a lot of men use it makes this somewhat justified OR because past partners were way to demanding. Try having a piece of salami jammed down your throat for a couple of minutes. But in a normal healthy relationship it should be possible to just ask for it. Although most women will be "content" to offer it themselves at certain times. Mind you, you begging for it can be a turn on for your partner. It is all part of the sex play between two adults how you bring this up.
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reader, Somethingeasy +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Just ask. Its kinda vulgar but it will get it out there
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reader, sue88  +, writes (22 February 2008):
Shy kids get no sweeties lolI agree with AskEve bring up your wants when the moment is right and hey prestoe at least she knows, and leave the choice up to her.Hope all goes well for youSuex
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reader, AskEve +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Some women love giving fellatio, others hate it! There's no hard and fast rule about this amongst women, it's all a matter of preference. If you want your partner to go there then why don't you bring it up in conversation? Ask her what she would love you to do to her then tell HER what you would love her to do to you. Whether she chooses to do it then, is up to her.~Eve~
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