New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?

Tagged as: Sex<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (22 February 2008) 17 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *azninch writes:

I've got one curious question to ask you. If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?

Please tell me, I asked my mum, she said ask your dad so I did but he said ask your mum etc etc. I can never get anywere with my family

View related questions: condom

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Aylarsh United States +, writes (25 February 2008):

Aylarsh agony auntIt's a shame that you can't go to anyof your parents feel free to ask anymore questions whenever.

Good luck Love!

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (24 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntWhat do you mean by virgin?

A girl is considered a virgin if her hymen is still intact. She may not have sex and still lose her virginity because the hymen or thin membrane inside her vagina can be broken by rigorous exercise .

She may have sex but in some girls the membrane maybe tough and elastic and may not be easily broken if penetration is not deep enough to break it. In which case, she is still a virgin.

In some society , virgin referred to a young woman with no sexual experience.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntWell thats a shame about your parents but with any problems you can post on here and atleast you will get answers

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2008):

hlskitten agony auntHi

Thats a shame, but i guess this site is good for anything like that you need to ask.

Although it doesnt take the place of a good adult you can confide in.

C xxxxx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, jazninch United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2008):

jazninch is verified as being by the original poster of the question

jazninch agony auntthanks you av all helped me so much and if anyone asked no i dont want to know this because i want sex but just coz i wanted to know my mum n dad split up wen i was 1 i now live wi mi dad and he dont like me askin questions like that coz he wont accept that im growing up and that i will be 13 in 7 mounths

my mum hates me n i hate her most of the time becaue of wat she did to try and get me back

wen i try to talk to her she either tries to change the subjuct or ignores me so

(by the way , johndoe200three im female !!)

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Aylarsh United States +, writes (23 February 2008):

Aylarsh agony auntYou used a condom so you aren't it just protected you from Disease and pregnancy. You are not a virgin after contact with someone elses genitalia.

3

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (23 February 2008):

SamuraiRick agony auntIf you wear a bullet proof vest and you get shot at, did the bullet still hit you?

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (22 February 2008):

O Connor agony auntnope a condom doesnt stop you losing your v plates, just decreases the chance of you gettin pregnant. i dont agree with the way your parents dealt with this either, it is a conversation for a girl to have with her mother, not be passed around by her parents. you are so young still so im hoping this is not a question that you are asking because you are thinking of having sex, wait a few more years, you will get there and appreciate it more as you will be more mature and more able to deal with the emotions that come with sex. however, if you are gonna do it jst use a condom!!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntI am disurbed that your parents keep passing the buck back and forth, when you ask about sexual matters. It is little wonder than Britain has a very high teenage pregnancy rate because of ignorance and lack of sex education.

Your parents should be ashamed of themselves, by not imforming you at the most important time of your life as you are reaching puberty. They are people who you look up to and should teach you about these important matters, not shove it under the carpet when it suits them.

I think they should take responsibility and get you books to read about sex and contraception. Hope I have been of help, Dusky xxx.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Helen1986 United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

Helen1986 agony auntHello, No you are not a virgin if you have sex using a condom. If a mans penis enters inside you protected or not you are not a virgin.

Wearing a condom is very intelligent and will prevent STDs and nasty infections it also minimises the chance of becoming pregnant. So always make sure your sexual partner wears one.

Remember you never know where anyone has been!!! Sexually transmitted infections are travelling fast and it only takes the one time to contract one. SO ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Helen1986 United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

Helen1986 agony auntHello, No you are not a virgin if you have sex using a condom. If a mans penis enters inside you protected or not you are not a virgin.

Wearing a condom is very intelligent and will prevent STDs and nasty infections it also minimises the chance of becoming pregnant. So always make sure your sexual partner wears one.

Remember you never know where anyone has been!!! Sexually transmitted infections are travelling fast and it only takes the one time to contract one. SO ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Helen1986 United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

Helen1986 agony auntHello, No you are not a virgin if you have sex using a condom. If a mans penis enters inside you protected or not you are not a virgin.

Wearing a condom is very intelligent and will prevent STDs and nasty infections it also minimises the chance of becoming pregnant. So always make sure your sexual partner wears one.

Remember you never know where anyone has been!!! Sexually transmitted infections are travelling fast and it only takes the one time to contract one. SO ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntcondom or no condom you wont be a virgin anymore.

if you have SEX you bf/partner must wear a condom!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

Fairy_Lu agony auntIf you have sex if a mans penis enters your vagina protected or not you are no longer a virgin its as simple as that, and i think it was a little strange for your parents not to explain that if you asked.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, johndoe200three United States +, writes (22 February 2008):

even if you use a condom and have sex you arent a virgin no. Your protecting yourself from std's and possibly aids. You are clearly doing the right thing and your parents should be able to talk to there own son about this. But like i said to answer your question you would not be classified as a virgin condom or not.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, babewithbrains United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

babewithbrains agony auntA condom doesn't stop the man's penis going up you're vagina - it just catches the sperm/semen and other bodily fluids.

You should be learning this in either year 6 or yr 7.

You should talk to your mum more - it's not going to be easy from what I've seen here but just talk to her, about anything, go shopping, stuff etc..

Good luck with the future.

Jelly

PS. Are you in Year 7? So am I!!!!

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2008):

hlskitten agony auntHi

No you wouldn't be a virgin if you used a condom.

Thats a shame, your ma n pa should be able to speak to you if you are asking questions. In an ideal world anyway.

C xxxxx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "If you use a condom when having sex, areyou still classed as a virgin?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.046894400002202!