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writes:I am so generally fed up. I just dont want to get out of bed most day. I lost my job recently and havent worked since. My daughter and i moved in with my bloke and his daughter over two years ago and nothing has been right since with them, the kids just hate each other. We got married last year and i wish we hadnt bothered. I loved living on my own with my child. We had lived on our own for 9 years, before i met my bloke. I miss my independence. Even choosing what to have for tea and answering my phone. I hate the situation now. I tried everything to get another job and i just feel like i am fighting depression on a daily basis. His child is rude and just plain sly. I try my best to like her but it is getting harder. I try to keep busy but i am crying my eyes out while i am typing this. Please can someone say someone just to spur me on. I feel so lonely. I love my husband, but sometimes i just dont like him. What can i do. I want to be single and independent again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): I sincerely hope that things work out for you, I know it sounds like a cliche but have you tried talking to your husband about how you feel? I think sometimes it helps just to talk. All the best for the future, take care xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Here you are hunny I did it the link
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php
TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Hi Hunny
You are suffering a major deppresion brought on by little things then bigger things then the major thing the job loss, I no as I had to give up my job for health reasons and I went into a huge deppresion as you are stuck at home all day and the things that may have got on your nerves abit get on them BIG TIME NOW!!!! And you just feel nothing, Nothing is going right you have tryed your best but its all gone to shit and you just want to hide away!
Right I would send you a link but my computor is broken in places... So go to self esteem for women and it is probably the 3rd or 4th one down then go to depression and look up one that suits you this is all for self help and its there all the time so when you feel bad you read. BOOK AN AP WITH YOUR DOCTOR!!!! very important dont sit at home feeling this way.... You love your husband and the kids are a nightmare but I really think that all this has made you ill so once you have got your self confidence back hunny and you sort out what you can do to help your depression you will think in a different way and then make decitions sweetheart if you really want to leave....
Put an alarm on every morning hun and stick to it bugger the hswork as that will get you down and go on this site to help you find an outlet it worked wonders for me hunny and im so much better I can actually say im well, If you need to message me any time feel free if I DONT ANSWER BACK STRAIGHT AWAY MY COMPUTOR HAS HAD A BEAKDOWN BUT ILL GET TO YOU SOMEHOW YOU TAKE CARE SWEETHEART WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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