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writes: Last May 2007 I found 3 text messages on my husband's phone flirting with a woman, when I asked him he said it was just banter with a work colleague. He told me she worked in one of his nearest depots and only saw her ever few months and I believed him He told me her name was Alison so I sent her a text message telling her to stop texting my husband about her underwear. She sent one back saying sorry and it was just a bit of fun.I tried to put it all behind me but 2 weeks ago I got it into my head to ring the number just to comfirm her name, the person that ansered wasn't Alison but Sharon!! I confronted my husband and he said he'd tell me the truth - it was a manager that worked in one of his nearest depots and says nothing ever happened between them, just texting and flirting, this went on for only a few months. He said he left this job last June after working there for years, I think because of what happened can I trust him? I love him more than words can explain, we have a great marrage and love life and he tells me every day how much he loves me, we've been together since school, he's also my best friend.
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reader, sue88  +, writes (22 February 2008):
WEll maybe nothing did happen, but maybe something did!I would say keep a VERY close eye on him for a little while, take it from there. If nothing comes up you trust him, trust doesnt just appear over night. if something does, i think you no what to do. dont keep giving him the excuses of money property or kids. get rid there and then.I say every1 deserves a second chance but not a 3rd 4th 5th etc.Becarfull not to be a fool and believe his lies over and over, you'll end up more hurt in the long run.Best of luckSuex
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (22 February 2008):
 HiSounds like he got a bit of a wobble on back then and wanted a bit of excitement. Possibly nothing else did happen. He left the job and has been fine since?I guess all you can do at the moment is make sure all is good in your marriage, and communicate. Making sure he realises this isn't something that you will put up with again.Maybe a bit of conselling to find out why he wanted to get into that in the first place, and to make sure you are both working on your marriage together. It takes 2.Good luck.C xxxxx
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