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anonymous
writes:I Had a really intense and passionate fling with a girl who came over to study. She has been home in Holland for 2 weeks and is still with her boyfriend. We email nearly every day and text a bit to. The contact is fun and is dirty talking about what we did and when she comes back over in the summer. The problem is am i hanging on to her? Should i let her go and move on? the problem is i think about her all the time! is she just using me for a bit of fun outside of her life at home? what should i do for me?
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reader, just-ask-xx +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Ok, not trying to be mean but are you sure you love this girl? I kind of got the impression you're just looking for a bit of fun, I mean, how do you feel about her? You don't have to love her endlessly and always thinking of her and stuff but flings don't usually go anywhere, especially if she has a boyfriend. I'm just saying.
Meet up and talk about what's going on between you two, 'cos that changes everything.
Email back, cos I'm nebby =] It's an illness
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reader, princess*d* +, writes (22 February 2008):
 hiya,are you really in love with this girl? if so tell her to come round for a weekend and ask who what she wants to do and i dont think she is just using you for fun because why would she be texting you if her love of her life was her boyfriend, dont let her move on because you have feelings for her you just have to show them x if you are missing her then ask her for her adress and go and see her if her boyfriend is there then pretend your her mate and ask her if she wants to go to the pub then she will probally say yes then you can have time alone then head back to your place for some fun in the jungle lol snake+forest=SEX ! =]
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