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writes:I was with this one girl *Jen* for 2.5 years. Things were good when we were away at school, but after moving home the first summer she got back into her old routine and really put me in the backseat. That was a big change for me because of how close and how much time we spent before. She would lie to me about things she was going to do, but never did them, and it was a daily thing. I just couldn't believe it, it hurt me and tore me down a lot, but I still stuck it out until the end of the summer because I loved her so much. When we got back to school things started getting a little better, but a lot of it didn't because I was so angry for the way she treated me. It took all my trust away when she lied. I ended up meeting another girl while at school, and got to know her well and we were close. Long story short, I ended up hurting 2 very nice girls, and I apologized to both of them while they were with each other, but now none of them will talk to me. I am haunted by this, by the fact I hurt two great people, now I'm alone. What should I do, it's been 6 months since I've heard anything, some days I think about it, others are consumed with the thought. Would it be appropriate to try and contact them and just let them know how I'm feeling and try to salvage a friendship, or what? I just really need help with this. Reply to this Question
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reader, Somethingeasy +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Its too late to try and salvage a friendship that has had no contact in over 6 months. Not to be rude but you need to learn to move on. Dwelling on the subject is the worst thing you can do to yourself.People are diffrent in diffrent settings, I.E. at school or at home.Best bet is to move on.
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