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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband has a child with his ex. Of course they have to communicate about the child but she still finds it necessary to call him at least once a week about something completely unrelated to the child. Last week it was a question about ceiling fans. This week she called him to tell him she got a raise at work. Am I being too hard on him for being upset about her calling for these reasons?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Hunny listen to me turn around and leave now. I dont care id your married it is only going to get worse. So what they have a child together. Curb side pick up and drop off and no communication. You should be the only woman in his life. I've been in the same situation for four years and now have two children of my own with my husband and i live everyday of my life with anxiety b/c of his ex and son. Listen please find someone else. You will eventually get divorced any way so you might as well leave now. Unless he says he gonna nip it in the bud. And Actually go through with it. They still have feeling for each other and thats the sad but true TRUTH.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): Why don't YOU stop being paranoid and childish? Many men do not know anything about ANYTHING! So she knows that he will try and make the best decisions since he has a child by her. Come on and give the girl and YOUR man a break!Let him continue to be a 'friend' to her. What's the big deal unless YOU YOURSELF have some issues.DC DUDE
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (22 February 2008):
 It sounds like she is still attached to him emotionally. She still depends on him to help her even though they aren't together. She doesn't understand or doesn't want to understand that they are done as a couple and that he is with you. You gotta somehow get that into her head and then tell your guy about your concerns. Communicate your distress to him. Personally, I really don't see a reason to freak much but its your emotions and they are important. I would just keep calm.
At least until she crosses a certain line.
Then you can freak.
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