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writes:ok I know this girl at work, she's amazing, we share the same sense of humour. She's smart and we have a lot in common but I need to know if she likes me, we do all the flirty stuff etc but I don't know if she's just being friendly? Anyway she's well outta my league and I need to know before my 18th coz we're all goin out and I need to know if I should put myself out there and I'm not gonna get shot down lolanyway all ur answers would be great thank u all in advance xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): Yo mate, even if she is out of your league, even if she is just being friendly, is it worth not saying anything and going home every day kicking yourself thinking "god i should have asked her out", No its not, it's the 18th today and you may or may not have talked to her, but regardless of that don't use it as an excuse not to just walk up to her and tell her she's stunning and ask her out, Even at work!
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (23 February 2008):
Girls love confidence. Be confident man! :-) If she's flirting with you there's a good chance. But who knows with 18 year old girls. We can't tell you if she likes you or not - only she can do that. So ask her! This is a cute one I got once upon a time... a guy friend of mine handed me a note and said "Will you go out with me?" with three boxes to check - he made them really funny too - something like ...Yes - I've been dying for you to ask, so glad you finally got a clue! No - You blew it after the *** incident, you are SO just in "the friend zone"Maybe - Lay some moves on me and we'll see how you do That way whichever one she checks you still keep it light and fun. Even if she says no, you can still stay friends by keeping it fun (make a stabbed in the heart movement every time she walks by, but smile) That's what's so great about being a guy... girls can never get away with that sort of stuff, but guys totally can.
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (23 February 2008):
 A league of her own, eh?
So what if do get shot down? Do you go wimper in a corner? No. You come out and try again . . . and don't lower your standards. It's not a shame to be shot down. The shame is in not getting back up.
Go for it! You might be surprised by the result!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): She can't be out of your league unless you mentaly make her to be. Just go for it.
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reader, Sams_WonderWoman +, writes (23 February 2008):
 First of all, I want to wish you a happy 18th birthday! And I think that everything will go good for you on your special day. Just be a gentleman and treat her with respect, she will treat you with respect. Why don't you ask her out for coffee or a movie and see what happens. Also pray about your situation, and ask the Lord to help you. I think things will go good for youGod Bless!
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (23 February 2008):
 There is no such thing as a girl out of your leauge. If you like her, and she comes to like you are are both in the same ball park, same league, same game. I never see a woman who is more beautiful than others as in another leaugue...why would I take my self out of the picture. Let her make the choice of rejecting you if she does...until then you play the game. If anything you may find a lot of girls you first think are out of your league are way below you. Get in the game.
Getting shot down is part of life, man, your gonna get you share of rejection. But if you show a girl confidence and don't back down you will always be in her league. Even the Yankees lose games. So will you. But if you dont play the game, you dont get the prize. Good luck, dude. Dont get scared and dont back down. Be your best self and nice women will always be around you.
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reader, ItsASecret +, writes (23 February 2008):
Ok NO ONE is out of your league, don't ever have that attitude and don't let any girl make you feel that way!If there is an obvious chemistry there, give it a shot. What's the worst she can say... "no", right? She'll look at you in a different light-it shows courage to ask someone out! Plus, she may wanna go anyway just to hang out. I say you give it a shot, start your 18th out doing something gutsy. :)GOOD LUCK!
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