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writes:I've been with this man 18 years older than me. We get on well and sex with him is fantastic. It's amazing he can have sex with me 2 or 3 times a week. A year on he is not as good as he used to be in bed. I know it's his age. But I am always horny round him. I feel bad when I see him struggling to satisfy me. Please advise.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Sex is fantastic with him, you feel horny round him--that sounds really good; do you have any idea how many men would just love to hear that?
Maybe you need to adjust your sex play with him...lots more foreplay and less worrying about how it ends...
And maybe you can help with satisfying yourself? Get very hot and work yourself up while you're with him. Don't put it all on him, I guess is what I'm saying...
Treasure him and let him know how you feel about how great he makes you feel!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (22 February 2008):
 While "duskyrowe" may trade experience for Everready batteries, which is fine (to each their own), your lover must be able to offer a wider range of pleasures for you.
However, as an older man myself, I must admit that I can't do some things as I used to, especially pound away at a superman pace for long. In my case, I try to make up for that with what I can do with my tongue, hands and experience. Haven't heard any complaints yet, and some mates were half my age. So if your guy seems lacking in talent, notably oral, there are some fantastic sources available these days in the printed form. Only suggesting that IF that is the case, he might begin with books on "Kama Sutra," or a great read by D. Ian Kerner titled, "She Comes First." I saw both available yesterday at a Barnes & Noble Bookstore in Texas. Best wishes.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (22 February 2008):
 I'm sure if you and your partner are close you can talk about sexual things. Find out what turns him on and gets him "hard" then bring this up when you're in bed together. My partner was over 20 years older than me so I know where you're coming from but there are ways of getting around it.Don't feel bad when you see him struggling, encourage him and tell him how good he makes you feel. Say things to him that you know excite him and turn him on. Use fellatio to help stimulate him and use a "cock ring" (hate that term) around the base of his penis to maintain the blood flow and keep his erection. I'm sure he has fantasies and there will be something that really turns him on, it's just finding out what it is. Once you've found that then hey... you're in... or rather he is!!!! (winks).Have fun!~Eve~
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (22 February 2008):
 Maybe you have tired the poor guy out lol. Have you ever thought of looking up on Google about, sex for the 50 plus.It will advise you about lack of libido, impotence etc and hopefully this will help your man out. I know age is just a number, but personally I go for guys that are a few years younger (not that I am suggesting that you should do that). All I am saying younger men are like Everyready batteries if you know what I mean ;). Good luck my love. Dusky xxx.
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