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anonymous
writes:i am in a troubled marriage, and there's this ex-supervisor of mine whom i really have a great sexual desire (lust) and so as he on me. we've been communicating thru text messaging, internet chat for the past 2 months now (on and off), and we see each other once in a while. although, no sexual activity had happened yet...but i'm just not sure the next time we see each other. he's also married. i kept on thinking about him and can't help to imagine myself having sex with him.please help me. i want to forget about everything he said but i am really having a hard time doing it.i have deleted his no. on my cellphone, deleted him on my contact list.he's 10 years older than me.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (3 November 2007):
 You're behaving like a horny teenager. You need to take a look at yourself and make some better choices. You have already cheated on your husband....morally that is. If you've been communicating with another man about desires toward him, that's cheating. Of course he wants to have sex with you, he has a penis and you have a vagina. Big deal, you're married. Keep your pants on, stay away from the texting etc. It's no wonder your marriage is troubled, you're more interested about having sex with another man. Concentrate on the marriage. If it doesn't' work, find another SINGLE man.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (3 November 2007):
 Focus on your marriage. I don't know how long you've been part of this site, but reading the questions and answers should answer your question.
Affairs with married men = destruction
Affairs period = destruction
any relationship while in a relationship = destruction
I recommend some marital counseling. Part of the reason for doing things like this is you're week. You need to build your personal strength. When you do that temptation begins disappearing because your beliefs behind it get stronger.
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