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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey.My boyfriend and I were going out for 7 months and he finished me. We'd split up twice before but this time it was different. Everyone said he'd cheated on me. He admitted it to his friends but denied it to me. The friday before we split up he stood me up and i was upset by it.. On the saturday I confronted him about it and it felt like I couldn't win coz I didnt want to let him get away with it but if i said any different he'd go off in a mard and finish me. On monday he was weird with me at school all day then at night he got his mate to finish me on the phone. He then got with someone else about 2 days after.. that didnt last long.. he started seeing someone then finished that and got back with the other girl.. then asked me out when he was still going out with her. I said yes. STUPIDLY! Now its been a repeat of what happened a couple of weeks ago.. He told me he wasnt coming out but he did and met lotsa girls.. his mates told me he fancies someone else. Help me plz. I want to talk 2 him but I dont kno what to say and I want to get out of this relationship if hes not gona start treating me nicely. Its easy for everyone 2 say aww just get rid of him but its hard x thanks x
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 Hello.
I see your problem it seems that you are in love with this guy, and all he does is treat you badly,I now it is hard for you to give him up, but sweetheart, he is no good, he is cheating on you, standing you up, and totally an immature scum bag,look at yourself the heart ache you are going through,the tears you are crying, hes really not worth your love, you are better than him, look at yourself, your wonderful, charming, witty, full of fun, then he comes along and ruins all that for you, you know the best thing for you is to get rid of this looser, he will be found out in the end and no one will want him.
You on the other hand will have a wonderful life, you will find that special person who will love you back and be the only one for you, you are young enough to get over him, start again and find some one who is like you, kind hearted, lovable, honest and caring,dont let him ruin your wonderful life, hes just not worth you love, after all he is a looser because he has lost you.
Hope this helps you, good luck.
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 You have answered it yourself, you have said you want to get out of this relationship.
He has no rights to make you feel like this and sounds very immature where as you sound quiet mature.
You may have feelings for him and if so these may blur your vision of him and what you really want.
Are you wanting revenge for the way he has made you feel???
The best revenge you are going to get is by you dumping him in front of his mates.
Simply walk up calmly and say it and walk away
Good luck
Peaches
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reader, rcn  +, writes (3 November 2007):
 I really can't think of anything to say to him that does not start off with "you lying piece of crap." There's your start then take it from there.
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