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anonymous
writes:Hi, I think I'm falling in love with my girl, but I am afraid that eventually she will end up hurting me indirectly because she is often cold and unaffectionate. She says it's unintentional, the way she is, and perhaps she will change as we grow together. She does have her loving moments on occasion.Inside my heart I think she will change but I'm aware that this could be some sort of denial on my part.In your opinion is this a deal breaker? I've had a fair share of girlfriends and she is the first I have thought in my mind I could marry. But I'm a bit hung up on this issue.Thanks for your advice, Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): I think you should talk to her more about it. I behaved that way with my boyfriend because I had fallen out of love with him but was too scared to admit it in case I hurt his feelings. I jsut broke u with him and I now wish I had atleast talked about it more with him and cooled it off earlier because I have hurt him so much
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (3 November 2007):
 Hello.
It seems that you are falling in love with her at a faster rate than she is with you, it would be a good idea to slow down, be the best friend that any one could be to her, and in time things may change between you, but if you have any reservations in your mind about her then maybe you should you just stay her friend, and you should look else were for a wife, marriage is a very big commitment and if you are both wrong for each other then you will only divorce, and that really hurts.
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reader, Yogichickk +, writes (3 November 2007):
 Think about this:
What if she never changes? Will you be OK with the way things are?
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