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reader, BakringBabe2010  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 The first time I had it I did not bleed but i have lost my virginity it depends some girls bleed some girls don't but i didnt
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reader, Ashleigh babz  +, writes (8 March 2009):
Yeah, the first time you have sex it hurts a little, don't be scared by it though, there is somtimes a little blood as well but that's normal so there's nothing to worry about! ENJOY YOUR SEX!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): Hi,
I have just read all them answers above and some of them make valid points. But im a Doctor & everyone is different.
Some girls bleed.. some dont..it hurts some and dosent others.
Yes it may be uncomfterable and a little sore afterwards and you may need the loo abit more for the broken skin to clear away as well.
So yes bleeding can occour but not in all cases.. any virginal bleeding is good to be checked out though. After your first time any bleeding should stop after about an hour or a little more.
Hope this helps
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): it hurts alot! we had to stop and I never saw that guy again after that. also bled so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): am goin 2 be 19 in a month and am still a virgin, i'v alsways believed in sex after marrige. But 1 of my best friends told me he had an big crush on me and i kinda fanced him2, but scared am going to loose my friendship with him. alos wat scares me more is the pain, bleeding HELP!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Its true you do bleed havving sex, but usually only your first time, and its only a little bit. Also, it does hurt, but only for a couple of minutes-and don't be so tense or it could hurt more once you do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): it does hurt a little I did tear up a little but I mean its not horrible... I bled a little.. but I stopped about an hour after and it wasn't a lot of blood...
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reader, amiamuppett +, writes (6 November 2007):
im not going to lie to you, it does hurt and yes some girls bleed some girls dont, if you tell him to be slow it will be fine chick, MAKE SURE YOU WHERE PERTECTION.
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reader, Misha_is_lost +, writes (3 November 2007):
Yes, in most cases loosing virginity leads to bleeding, not too much blood though. You may experience a little discomfort, but it wont last for long. You may need to wait a day or two to have sex again just to make sure the wound is healed completely. Hope this helps
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reader, superdopah +, writes (3 November 2007):
i wouldnt use the word hurt but it is quite uncomfortable, and some people bleed some dont! i found that it was more sore for a couple of days after the act then during
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reader, lovehate +, writes (3 November 2007):
 Yes you do bleed and yes it does hurt, depending on the female the amount of pain is different. A few people i know said they found it hard to walk the next day.
It's messy and uncomfortable first time.
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reader, confussed????? +, writes (3 November 2007):
When i lost mine i didnt...but some of my friends did. so i guess it depends on the person.
And aslong as your relaxed and comfortable with the situation it shouldnt hurt.
Hope this helps
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): Yes you will bleed but it does not hurt, if it feels like the right moment then you can take it that step further, but if you are being pushed into it then you do not have to go through with it. Im not saying dont do it, im just saying wait untill the time is right for you and not when its convenient for him.
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female
reader, peaches83 +, writes (3 November 2007):
 It can hurt sometimes and yes you can bleed although not alot just light spotting.
Due to it been your first time i am presuming your partner also know its you rfirst time to, take things slowly and go at your pace.
Your first time is suppose to be something your remember forever so enjoy, try to stay relaxed and enjoy the moment.
All the best
Peaches
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