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writes:ok i am 14 i have blonde hair and about 5'3 and at school me and my freinds hang out at the school gate (our school is bye a football training ground) you see all the players cars and i they keep on staring at me and i find it very embaresing (somtimes they wave too)when they drive past why do they do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok ok people i understand where you are coming from i only written in more than once because i wanted more answeres and the only reason it taken me so long to reply to this is because i have internet problems the last week.thanks for everyones time.xxxx
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (5 November 2007):
 Hello Anon. when they started writing these letters in i believed the same as you, but when the letter keep coming in and over 25 people have advised them, then they still keep writing in the same questions, then it becomes tiresome, if they used their heads and stopped hagging around on public display then they would not be noticed as much,if people are waving and there is a few of them at a gate how do they now who is waving at who?, and i think that they are at an age were they really know what is going on and they may just be bored and are trying to fill there time by annoying others, this is my opinion, and i think some people agree that we have a duty to the people who write in with real problems who deserve more of our time, because not all aunty's and uncles can spare their time to answer the request we deal with every day, some people may be missed who have real problems because we are spending time answering their questions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): LOL got to butt in here
This is very refreshing, but also got alot of you mad, don't you guys think its great that a girl aged 13-15 has written on this site not because she has a boyfried, she don't want sex advice, she's not been abused her only problem is that when she stands at the school gate footballers wave (its hilarious) no offence poster be proud that this is your only concern at this age as too many young people want to grow up to fast, and we all know when you get older thats when the real problems start good for you.
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reader, kta16  +, writes (4 November 2007):
Okay, could you please ask for advice on a real problem? You totally just wrote this because you thought people would say that theyre interested in you. Well I hate to tell you hun but a little wave doesnt mean anything.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (4 November 2007):
thank you again.
sorry that you seem to be as upset as you are, if you have a real problem, something that is giving you grate concern in your life, that affect you deeply, write back to me on this page and hope fully we can discuss it, i dont want to know about foot ballers ,i dont want to now about school gates, or people waving at you, if you have an under lying problem, i will try and help you all i can promise, if this is the case then i am so sorry that i became annoyed with you, i would really like to help you if that is the case,OK.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question1.loads of people hang out at the school gates
2.i have no intrest in waving at footballers
3.we always hang around bye the school gates and we do not only go there because the footballers drive past.
4.we do not stand around and wait for them
5.this has only happend on a number of occasions
6.i always get offers from boys but i turn them down because they are all idiots at school and most of them smoke and do drugs.
7.i am not a TART.
8.its pretty sad you are shouting at a 14 year old girl
GET THE MESSAGE NOW!!!!!
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (4 November 2007):
I have only been on this site for two weeks plus and in the logs on machine it say,me and my mate stood at school gate near foot ball ground, a bus went by people waved at us what does that mean
me and my mate stood at school gates two bloke waved at us what what does that mean
me and my mate stood at school gate people taking photos of us what does that mean
me and mates stood at school gates what does it mean when foot ballers wave at you
if you read my post properly you will find i said because you are standing around watching them all the time THEY think you are a couple of tarts, i have no opinion,what you are accept a couple of time wasting immature little girls no wonder you have had no boy friends, stay away from the gates then no one will bother you,
you really need to stop pestering my friends they are to busy helping real people with real problems, and not stupid question that you now the answer to,i hope you really do stop writing in you are wasting our time and we have better things to do, next time some one waves at you tell a teacher they will be more that happy to put you in detention for wasting there time.
Thank you for your reply.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe last comment was very untrue and hurtfull i do not think high of myself and i am certainly not a tart and nither are my freinds.and i have not written in the past eight days i think you would like to check that again "dapone 1" i think it is teribble you calling a 14 year old who you have never seen before a tart.(i havent even had a boyfreind i want to save myself)how does that make me a tart.And thank-you the rest of the advice was great.P.S i dont think they fancie at all thats sick and wrong.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (4 November 2007):
Hello.
you want like what i think, in the past eight days you have written in with three, stories of men waving at you, the story about people taking your photograph, there was a third one but i cant remember at the moment, you two must have a great imagination,you seem to think that all the guy in the world have nothing better to do that chase a couple of silly schoolgirls, the second reason could be because you are always standing around watching them then they think you are a couple of tarts on the game, the best thing for you to do is stop hanging around outside the gates attracting attention to your selfs, if time you both grew up, you are so immature, i wish you would stop writing in and wasting all my good friends time who are trying to help a pair of nomads, go and annoy some one else.
I hope you get the message.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): i wouldnt say im naive, im just not trying to encourage a 14 year old to start thinking that footballers who are at least 8 years older..would be interested.
Im not saying your not attractive because i have no doubt that you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): Wow! You are really naive! I'm 5'5 and blonde, and though I'm 24, since I was about 12 guys have done the same to me and still do-they think you are attractive! My grandma always said that it is almost a curse for me, though, because lots of player-types have tried to and successfully gone after me and I think it was just because of my looks. Be careful, and don't let all this get to your head. Keep your standards high and don't settle for guys that don't deserve you. Believe me, I have ten years more experience, have had about 5 serious relationships, and have broken off 2 engagements. The bad boys always seem to find me! Don't let it happen to you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): There most likely jsut being friendly.
I wouldnt think to much into it.
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